I used to think that women do have the ability to achieve success. I wondered, though, what kind of success? What will these successful women look like? Will they feel really happy about their jobs? I was not quite sure and my belief was not so firm before attending the Women’s Forum Asia.

However, when I saw so many top women gathering together discussing the issues they're concerned about, I felt my doubt disappear. Whenever I talked to them I could see the passion in their eyes, which told me they are really in a good condition and they love their job.

One speaker told me that loving what you do is very important. “If you can do a job until 3 o’clock in the morning without noticing the time, that must be the job you love deeply and is worth pursuing in your life,” she said.

I also remember a lady from Hong Kong who said that many youngsters often complain they have high pressure. “I can’t see that,” she said. “These young people should feel lucky because they have jobs. They should learn to love what they are doing.” Then she said she was 60 years old. I felt surprised because she only looked like she was 40. She was an optimistic, energetic and sunshiny person, one who I just wanted to talk with more.

Unlike many people I've met in my life who complain a lot, many of the participants are artists about life, who have wide vision. They seldom show any negative emotion. A Miss Shi encouraged me to just prepare for the best.

When you decide to do something, you should show the willingness to do that and put your heart into it. Love yourself, love others, and also, remember to love your job. That is attitude. Life is about attitude!